Most familiar word which brings both happiness and pain eventually is “LOVE.” Let me start with a question? Do you guys love someone? If the answer is yes, just go ahead and read this article which create an impact to either cherish or regret your love.
Love is something special to be shared between our friends, family, and comes the beloved ones. We even share our concern to the pets which stays together with us. The quality and quantity of love shared among our family and friends will be common. Because in this case, the love we shown will adequately come back more than we expected.
Have you guys heard the silent scream of a person, loving someone who doesn’t loves back. Yup! It is quite hard to be that person who keep on longing for their love in return nothing more than that.
Some foolish things they do when he/she are blind in love. Sending good morning, good nights texts even though the messages receive no response. Checking on them about how the day went; are they taking meals on time; and so on.
Taking initiative in knowing about their like and dislike; checking on their parents and expectations; trying to change themselves and make them fit into it. Planning to surprise them with n- number of gifts, greetings, always come out with unique ideas to make them feel special. Ready to plead before them though the fault is not on their side. Waiting hours together to get a single text, begging to spend some minutes together, just hi drops smile on their face.
Ready to sacrifice their sleep to wish them around 12 a.m. on their birthday though they don’t get single wish from them on their special days. He/ she call them just to hear their voice, prioritizing them in all the things they do.
Toughest situation is even after giving your 100 percent still being treated as shit. Though the truth is transparent, he/she pretend nothing happened and just follow them as before.
Everyday starts with checking on their last seen and ends with the same. Just staring at the profile pic will make them feel blessed. He/she shares posts just to grab their attention. Seeing their name in viewed list or if any one of the posts is liked by them, happiness they get has no words to express.
Another childish thing he/she do is collecting their pics whenever posted in social media, even try to take screenshot of their stories shared in Whats-app and Instagram. He/ she create folders to put all those stuffs as collection of their memories. The hardest truth is that they don’t have single pic together with them. May be mobile is owned by us, but gallery is filled with their stuffs, true sign of love.
One sided person also has the habit of keeping the stuffs safely like pen, chocolate cover, gift wrapper, currency note shared by them depending on situation. Person on the other side even don’t remember when it had happened.
He/ she also remember the day they met them for the last time, heard their voice for a while. These words/time will be cherished and counted until they meet them for the next time. He/she remember to mention them that, we are meeting after 60 days or two months or after a year.
He/she doesn’t give up on them, though they have thousand reasons to do so. Seeing them happy, makes he/she happiest ever. While seeing them in pain kills them twice than the affected person.
Even though one side love gives the feel of hurt, plucked by thorns, being ignored; blocked; avoided and so on. Love he/she has for the other person remains the same. Kind of screaming aloud in and exposing out their true love filled with fake smile.
To the person who given his/her 100 percent, the universe has the habit of returning your efforts from the right person. Keep going! World is bigger.
I conclude by saying,
To love and to be loved is everyone’s expectations. But having someone to treat us special in the way we are, making time for us, prioritizing us in-spite of busy schedules. Don’t forget to cherish those time and the person who was behind us during our good/bad state. Love is something which couldn’t rebuilt once destroyed. Live the moment and don’t regret once lost.
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